Dec 30, 2011

do u know what is the meaning?

aku yakin, semua kita pnh alami situasi yg sama.

dlm account facebook or twitter or whatever, akan ade kawan2 kita yg post status camni:

  1. Ya Allah, hadirkanlah seorang lelaki yg boleh membimbing aku ke syurgaMu ya Allah. at the same time dlm album die, gambar2 sume xtutup aurat.
  2. Ya Allah, bangkitkanlah aku di hari akhirat kelak dalam keadaan bersujud padaMu. profil pic die? siap pakai skirt pendek.
  3. Ya Allah, aku sgt rindu pada arwah bapaku. aku doakan semoga di penjelmaan akan dtg Kau ciptakan dia juga sebagai ayahku. ok, ni special case. mgkn kawan aku je kut. tp erkk...penjelmaan akan dtg?
  4. Mulai malam ni, cintaku hanya padamu sorang wahai hubbyku. aku janji xkn main2 dh..kali ni serius dh. sungguh! selang 10 minit, aku benci semua lelaki, semua lelaki jahat! erk?
  5. aku mmg nk pakai tudung, mmg nk smyg. tp xde org nk bimbing. tggula lps kawen kekg...
ni antara post2 yg biasa kt social network site.

persoalan aku skrg ni, masa kite post status2 tu, do we really know what is the meaning?

ilmu, hidayah perlu dicari kawan2. jgn cakap je. walk the talk.

Dec 25, 2011

adat-adat pergi kenduri kahwin

dulu aku igt, kawin je ade adat. hehehe..rupe2nye nk g kenduri tu sbgi tetamu tu pun ade adatnye.

ape adat2 die eh? berpakaian kemas? kemeja n baju kurung?

adat2 menghadiri kenduri kahwin:
  1. jangan basuh tangan dgn air yg disediakan tuan rumah khas utk minum. contohnya air sirap ke, air roselle ke..hukumnya haram. melainkan kita dh siap2 bwk air sirap sndiri dari rumah utk basuh tangan. ataupun mmg dlm kampung tu semua basuh tangan guna air sirap.
  2. jgn makan terlampau byk. kene pandai2 agak. khas utk seorang makan sahaja. jgn ambik makanan n lauk sampai bleh cover untk 2 org makan. melainkan dgn izin tuan rumah. kalau dah trlanjur makan banyak, kene bayar pada tuan rumah. sbb tuan rumah dh buat bajet makanan tu cukup utk brape org. kalo 10 orang dpt makan mcm 20 org, ertinya akan ade 10 orang yg xdpt makan.
  3. jgn pandai2 ambik n bungkus sndiri lauk utk bawak balik. kene dptkan izin tuan rumah.
indah kn Islam? dia jaga hak setiap manusia sampai sedetail ni..menyusahkan ke? maybe kalo kite jadi guest, mgkn kte kate gitu. camne kalo kite yg jadi tuan rumah?

renung2 kan dan selamat beramal =)

sumber: ustaz azhar idrus

Dec 21, 2011

PLKN







PLKN aka program latihan khidmat negara. well, in my time we didn't have this thing yet, so i don't have any experience about this. all my family members also, did not have to attend this programme, except for the youngest one in the family, koe. yes, koe is the PLKN candidate, scheduled to report on 1st January 2012 at Kem Indera Pahlawan, Maran, Pahang. n this bring a lot of headache to him n my family also. hahaha...y so?

koe has not always been in the best condition of health, since he was in 2 or 3 years back. his body cannot endure a tough physical test, as something is bothering with his antibody. (doctor has describe the 'something', but i forgot already). as we all know, PLKN is a military-looked alike programme. there will be a lot of kawad, running, climbing, handling with M16 (personally i found this as quite interesting). and i believe koe himself is eager to gain a new experience, he did mention this to me. but me myself dont think his body can allow that. just imagine, playing futsal with me n bros....he then have a fever for 2 weeks! pity him, as he is a good footballer, n he love sports so much.

but well, not much actually we can do. our doctor is trying hard to get him an excuse, or at least delay it. but it solely depend on the camp commander. just wait and see...Allah will give the solution, and His solution will surely be the best.

ok, let put the story about koe aside. what is PLKN? PLKN is a compulsory 3-month programme for the chosen students that have completed their school at the age of 17 or above. the chosen one will be stationed at various camp all over the country. during the 3-month period, there will be a short break for the students to get back to their home. from what i heard, the usage of handphones is only allowed in weekend. this means the trainees are completely isolated form the outer world.

This PLKN  is intended for the construction of personality aims to build and strengthen the spirit of patriotism among the young, ethnic unity and national integration, and also to develop positive character through the values.

The trainees will undergo 4 training module, 1) physical  2) nationalism  3) character building  4) community service. from my research, i found that depending on the camp, the atmosphere is quite good. actually this PLKN thing is a good idea from the government, but i think the implementation is still far from perfection. the government should at first have to ease the worries of the parents regarding to the safety of their child here. there's a lot of news that trainees are bullied by their comrade, or by the trainer. also there's a lot of social problem, even sexual intercourse happened among the trainees. of course the parents will get worried. 

and also, since not all the students will be chosen to attend this PLKN, i believe may be the government should form a special committee, just to find out the right candidate for this programme. the right candidates here for me are the students with social problems, and have difficulty to adapt with the society. the risky students (yes we have a lot here) should attend this, and i believe 3 month in training will change them to be a better person.

if i have the right to suggest, w i would like to suggest that they should implement more Islamic module to the training. from what i heard n read, the trainees have to get up early in the morning (at 5) and straight away go the field to kawad. then at 6.30 they will perform solat subuh. is it better if we start the day by remembering Allah? if the morning kawad session is replaced by reciting al-quran, i think it will be great. for a female trainee who conduct a muslimah dress code (u know what i mean), i dont think the physical module suit them well. as the government, u have to protect their faith, and allow them to practice their religion freely.

we have to be firm of what we want our younger generation to be. do we want they to be strong physically, or do we want they to perform their religion well? i opt the second option. 



Dec 14, 2011

Jakarta - Bandung

sbnrnye trip ni dh lame. mase chinese new year thn 2009. baru nk upload ats permintaan ma. secara detail trip ni dh xigt. gmbr2 je ade

kitaorg g ni actually nk cari brg2 untuk persiapan kawen abg aku...byk gak la brg2 beli sini...kad kawen pn tmpah sini...mase kitaorg g, tgh imlek (chinese new year). n mase tu Indonesia dkt nk PEMILU (pilihanraya umum). jadi nilai rupiah die trun. so kitaorg mmg sgt mewah la berbelanja. kadar tukaran wang kita jadi tggi. kitaorg g 11 org, slma seminggu, 3 hari di Jakarta, 4 hari di Bandung. siap sewa 2 biji kete (innova n preggio) siap dgn supir..overall aku rase enjoy gakla jln2 sini. cume aku kene gastrik...sakit gile..tu je spoil sket.mgkn mulut aku xleh terima sgt makanan sini kut.

dinner di pondok sedap malam, Jakarta. makanan best, restoran pn lawa


hotel kami di Jakarta. hotel apartment actually. beautiful n spacious

di Seaworld, Jakarta. aku rasa mcm same je dgn mane2 Seaworld. hidupan marin pn xde yg extraordinary


kalo xsilap, ni masjid trbesar di Jakarta. n bersebelahan dgn gereja yg trbesar jgk rasenye


singgah makan di Bogor
ikan kipas. sgt aneh

dkt tmpt makan pn ade kedai kasut beso gile.







di safari. kwsn luas, binatang mmg dtg dkt kete. boleh bg makanan lg. tp jgn try bg ke singa atau harimau dhla







dlm perjalanan ke Bandung dari Jakarta. lalu jalan lama, bergunung ganang. jauh, dlm 5 jam. tp pemandangan sgt lawa n sejuk. kt warung kitaorg singgah ni, ade ubi kentang manis. best gile!

cume yg agk xbest lalu sini, jalan die kecik. n xdok tmpt berenti. nk buang air, dkt 2 jam thn. bleh thn la bengkak pundi kencing

akhirnya tiba di Bandung. cuaca sejuk sikit dari Jakarta, ni singgah makan di antara restoran plg glamer di Bandung. makan makanan sunda

dalam salah sebuah kedai di sepanjang jalan di Bandung

pemandangan dari atas Pasar Baru







di sekitar kawasan beli belah di Bandung. byk lgi gambar, tp xtau ke mana hilang. gmbr di rumah mode pn hilang








di kawah putih. sangat sejuk. kawah gunung berapi









paris van java (paris di jawa). brg2 original.

toilet. lawa, tapi open. org lalu lalang bleh je napok kte

Bandar Bandung (pemandangan dari hotel)

bye....jumpe lagi insya Allah

**gambar xlawa. mase ni xde dslr lagi

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